How often have you heard that the first thing you need to do in Debt management is to make a budget? I don’t necessarily agree. In fact in a lot of cases creating a debt management budget can be a complete waste of time.
So you want to tackle your debts. Great – this is a fantastic step forward in that you acknowledge that there is a problem.
For someone who is offering their services as a financial advisor one of the easiest things in the world for them to do is to give you a budget. They have a template budget that they fill in your numbers into. You have ‘X’ income and ‘Y’ Expenses. You have a free cash flow of (X-Y) that you can put towards paying off your debts. Then they go on to give you a money saving tip sheet, The tip sheet includes things like – shop around for the best offer, rent out a room; file your taxes on time etc. This is all very commendable stuff and indeed some of it may prove to be useful but there is one fundamental problem with this whole process. That problem is YOU!
The core of the problem is that you are not a robot. If you were then that budget and tip sheet would work amazingly well if you had a computer program for a brain. All the budget rules and money saving tips could be programme into your brain. If this were the case your debt problem would solve itself in a matter of time. Your debt problem would have been caused by the result of faulty programming.
The thing is you are human. Your logic is ruled by your emotion and it is not possible to change your debt situation without changing your emotions. You see if it were simply a case of dishing out Budgets and Tip sheets to everyone then there would be no debt problems. The emotions people attach to money can be crazy – and I’m not excluding myself here, money is the root of all evil, to go after money is to be greedy, greed is good etc.
With such crazy and widely different views on money is it any wonder that people have confusing and conflicting emotions when it comes to money? Now apply this to you debt situation. How are you supposed to move in the direction of your goal of financial freedom when all this time you have been accumulating debt? There is no simple switch that can change your course overnight. When it comes to debt it doesn’t work that way and no amount of fancy budgets are going to change that.
So how do you do it?
To make the budget effective you need to change how you relate to money. Up to this point you may have had a ‘live for the moment’ attitude but have now realised that this is not sustainable from a long-term perspective. The banks usually catch up with you.
To change your attitude towards money you need to change the way you think about it. The big danger is that if you let your debts take over every thought that you have you will turn what is essentially an inanimate object – money – into something that has a life of its own and is about to take control of your life. Okay the fact that you are reading this article indicates that debt has become such a significant part of your life that you felt compelled to search for information about it on the internet. This is a good and bad thing, bad in that your debt is at such a stage but good because it shows that you are willing to take action – however small – to rectify the problem.
You have got to remember you are not going to change the spending habits of a lifetime over night. Before your budget will ever become effective you need to change. How do you change? One of the simplest and most effective ways to change how you relate to money is to use NLP.
NLP is short for Neuro-linguistic programming. It consists of a number of different psychological techniques that allow you to shape your attitudes and beliefs about anything. It is this flexibility that will allow you to use it to change your attitude towards money. NLP is just one of a number of techniques you can use. The time you spend researching how to change your attitudes and beliefs about money will pay serious dividends in the years to come.
The alternative to not changing your attitude towards money goes something like this.
You have debts that you need to repay. You have ignored them until now but the pressure from your creditors has become so intense that you can not afford to ignore them any longer. Faced with some tough decisions – either go bankrupt or somehow raise the funds to pay off your debt. You manage to raise the funds to repay your debts you either consolidate your debts or borrow from a family member or sell your car.
Problem solved or so you think. The real problem began with the spending habits that you have developed over the years and these spending habits are going to be hard to control once you think the debt danger has passed.
The only long-term viable solution is to get at the root of your debt problem which is to tackle your attitude towards money and your spending habits. If you combine a determination on your part to tackle your attitude towards money with a good workable budget then is no reason why you will not succeed in clearing your debts for good.
So when you decide to make a change and tackle your debts the best approach is going to be a two pronged attack. The first prong is that you are going to research as much as possible about NLP and techniques that change your beliefs on the internet. The second prong is going to be that you research how to create the best budget possible for your situation and also you compile a list of money saving tips that will apply to your situation.
So in answer to the question ‘Are Debt management budgets a waste of time?’ the answer is No. However, for them to be really effective they need to be backed up with a change in attitude of the person who is using them.